Love is a dreadful disease; more dangerous than Cancer. I say it because cancer only eats your cells but love eats your soul. This cruel love will not leave you until you have drained every drop of blood in a mystical hole called “happy ending”. The more pain the more you believe your soulmate will be with you forever and ever. The magic it spreads will take you to heights in minutes. The ecstasy seeing the loved one’s eyes makes you feel hell as paradise. Love which has crossed every single soul born on this planet, is more painful when it’s only you who are waiting for the happy ending.
Pain demands to be felt – John Green, ” The fault in our Stars”
Love is pain. The unending tunnel of loneliness begins the moment you realize the only person hanging on to the two sided rope is you. This loneliness grabs you by your throat and leaves you choking, screaming for breath and finally wishing for death sometimes. Some people are missed and some bad fate cannot be changed. This bad fate crosses us once in while in all our lives. When that dark, dull loneliness phase hits your relationship, just hang on there patiently for a miracle. Miracles happen everyday.
Hold on and think of all the beautiful things your love has brought into your life; the memories savored together and the life you had together. Cross your fingers and hope that this bad phase leaves you soon. Jesus said, ” love endures”. This beautiful thing which gives the major difference between humankind and others, make it a blessing, endure for a while.
But…. Hold on… Don’t be waiting for a longtime too. You know when you should quit. Wish that the other person is also waiting for you. If not, if you feel the person has moved on… Just close your eyes, say a small prayer and move on. You may cry for a day or two but don’t cry for a worthless person. Always be happy and wish positive things around you. Love meets you at the moment when you least want it and leaves you when you most want it. Get ready for the surprise arrow form cupid. Fall in love; Believe in Miracles; Be happy!
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